A few gems from the internet last week

Each week on Monday’s we’re going to give you a few things that we read over the last week that we thought was solid, inspired us to do even better work or just made us appreciate the fact that this internet is so awesome.  This week kicks us off.

The Perils of Being a Social Media Holdout from Harvard Business Review
If you’ve been on the fence about being on Facebook, Twitter or LinkedIn this is a great piece to read.

7 Simple Ways to Boost Your Productivity from Inc.
My big takeaway from this one is to never say maybe – it keeps something alive that didn’t make you want to scream YES.  Love that.

5 Reasons Why Your Side Project Might Not Be Successful
The allure of a side project can be great- you start off motivated and driven and then you don’t see the results you were seeking after putting less effort than you had anticipated and then you let it slide….before you let it slide read this.  Or better yet -before you start your next side project.

Take 5 minutes to….

I set the alarm last night for this morning. I don’t normally do that because I have a child that historically can sense when an alarm is going to go off and wakes up about 20 minutes before it.  But lately said child has been sleeping in, and while it’s a lovely treat, I need to recognize that I am a morning person and the rush that occurs after a 7:45am wake-up is just not the best way to start my day.

This all happened because last week I found a notebook that I had written in 4 years ago to the day. It’s creepy like that.  Lexi was 12 days away from turning one and I had done some online exercise to determine what elements needed to be a part of my day and my week to feel like it had been a great week.

For giggles I thought I’d spend this week seeing if those things remain true. So far that’s very much the case.

One of the things on my list: take 5 minutes to learn about something I’m curious about.

I am curious by nature, but it is still something that needs to be nurtured because as the rush of the day goes by sometimes I find myself content letting a lot of questions go by unasked.

So today I spent five minutes learning more about goats. Capra being named after the italian word for goat was mostly an inside joke.  But the more I learn about them the more I see that it is the perfect fit – unintentionally perfect. Sometimes things work out better than you really believed they could.

My favorite thing I learned about goats this morning: Goats will test fences, either intentionally or simply because they are handy to climb on. If any of the fencing can be spread, pushed over or down, or otherwise be overcome, the goats will escape. (thanks Wikipedia)

I like this because it speaks to a goat’s curiosity – about a goat’s willingness to see what happens out there – and it’s not passive – they’re not waiting for the gate to open.  You know what else I love?  It says the goats will escape.  It’s not that they may or that they could or that they might.  It’s that they will.  They see an opportunity to move forward? They take it.  It’s brave and unknowing but they’re compelled to do it.

Next time I see a goat I’m teaching it to high-five.

Now I’m curious -what are you going to take 5 minutes to learn today?

 

Back to School Times

Hi there.  I always want to start my posts like that.  Because I really am talking to you. I love that about this blog…I like how that makes me feel -I like how it hopefully makes you feel.  Today I have something to share with you that comes from my heart – a charity that I am personally very passionate about and involved with: Sojourner House.

For the past 18 months I’ve worked with Sojourner House as a volunteer, as a marketer and now as a Board Member (I’m seriously honored by this part) and I believe in the work that they do.

They support women and their children – it’s more complicated than that but at it’s heart it is that simple. They identify the needs – big and small and they find a way to offer these four things: shelter, structure, strength, and inspiration to everyone that passes through their doors and lives are changed because of it.

Why am I talking about this today? Because the part of my Sojourner work that motivates me the most is the kids. These kids need to know that they have hope – that someone else believes in them, in their potential, in their ability to do more, they need to know that the world is bigger and kinder and better then the sum of their experiences.  And they need to know that the start of all change is education.

This year we’re hoping to outfit 200 kids with backpacks and back to school gear so that they start out this school year excited, prepared and knowing that there is one person out there cheering them on as their world expands through learning.  So I’m asking you to donate $35 to Sojourner House for a backpack.  Comment back here for a note to be put in the backpack from you (THIS IS SO IMPORTANT – please do not miss this opportunity to share that you care) and for everyone that does I’ll personally match.

Go right here to make your donation.

The Waiting is the Hardest Part: 3 Ways to Wait Productively

You’ve worked hard and gotten your project just where it needs to be. Machinery (real or figurative) is humming and good things are happening. The problem is that to get where you want to go, you have to wait for that machinery to work it’s magic and you’ve got some down time. How do you fill that time productively without messing with the nifty little system you’ve got running in the background?

  1. Check your list of important stuff. Is there anything you’ve been neglecting while you’ve been working intensely toward getting things up and running? Maybe it’s your social media presence. Maybe it’s your blog. Maybe there are clients you need to follow up with – check everything!
  2. Go through the potential scenarios and outcomes from the process you’re waiting on and make plans for next steps based on the possibilities. This will help you be ready for whatever comes next, even if it’s something you didn’t entirely anticipate.
  3. Make sure your work processes are streamlined and efficient. Take a close look at the way you approach your business and take out the extra stuff that you don’t need – or eliminate things that simply don’t need to be done.

And remember, you’ve worked hard to get to this point and have earned a breather. It is important to stay productive and use your time wisely, but it’s just as important to take a sanity break and relax a bit. What’s the use of hard work if you don’t get to enjoy the fruits of your labor?

 

It’s a dangerous game

I’m a fan of the show The Newsroom.  That’s kind of an understatement. I binge watched it in the inside of 3 days and loved EVERY SINGLE SECOND of it.  Do I watch the news?  No. Not since Peter Jennings and the closest thing I get to watching anything like news now is 60 minutes. (I’m well informed I read the news – so no need to worry about my connectedness to the world.)

This morning hungover from watching Season 1 Finale I was googling when Season 2 starts and ran across this quote form show creator Aaron Sorkin:

“You’re playing a dangerous game if you write to try to change people’s minds.”

Something about it really resonated with me.  It is a dangerous game to write what you think, what you feel, what you know, what you don’t know – it is dangerous and vulnerable and scary.  And it matters.

Is your intent to change minds or simply to expand  a perspective?  For those of you that are out there writing. Why do you do what you do?